Sunday, June 17, 2012

of long-distance relationships

late-night phone calls. hm, i guess i;ll have to get used to the idea. 


it's been quite a while since emyl last called, but i cant blame her for that, hehe. it's obvious that she'd grown frustrated because i rarely pick up the phone eveytime she does. 
but last night she called, and we talked for an hour straight! hahaha eventhough it was REALLY late in the morning, she didnt seem tired or sleepy at all, while i was struggling to keep my eyes open and prevent myself from dozing off. it's really wonderful to hear stories from where she's studying, it gives me some sense of what im about to face when i get into my own college. hehe, college life doesnt seem to deter her a bit. so far she's still the same, still staying up late at night to watch kshows. so emyl. 


well, there's this story that she'd told me, and im REALLY glad for her. eventhough it's stiill not confirmed what position this person we're talking about is in, im sure that if it's meant to be, it will be. i sure do hope that this person's an actual gentleman and not just putting facades up just to look nice, like most guys i know. 


i told emyl about my principle of relationships (i know i still havent got any, or ever had any) and she was hahahahah shocked ( i think so). i think it's crucial that every girl to have a clear perspective of the real situation. guys these days are not like our fathers (back in their golden days). they dont just fall in love with one girl and stick with the notion of making her his. guys these days, im not trying to be offensive, are full of tricks. they'll say they like you one day, and the next, they'll dump you for another. i may have never been in that situation before, but i know better not to put all of my trust in one person and cling on to the fact that he'll be true to his words. from my experience assessing others' relationships, i find that guys' tendencies of staying true to his partner is just as much as the chances of a pig to fly. 


whatever it is, she says that college life is okay. i hope she's true to her words. not like some other people. 

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